As Bollywood’s power couple, Alia Bhatt and Ranbir Kapoor, settle into their magnificent new Rs 250 crore residence, 'Krishna Raj', curiosity is peaking about the family dynamics within its six floors. While the mansion houses the entire clan—including dedicated spaces for Neetu Kapoor, Riddhima Kapoor Sahni, and her family—the veteran actress has finally opened up about the art of co-existing without interference.

"Dadi Ki Shaadi" and Real-Life Boundaries

Currently riding high on the release of her latest film, Dadi Ki Shaadi (premiered May 8, 2026), Neetu Kapoor sat down for a candid chat with Soha Ali Khan. Amidst the promotional buzz, she revealed her golden rule for being a modern mother-in-law: Respect the Space.

"I believe that once your children get married, you should leave them alone," Neetu shared. "I live in the same building, but I don't just walk into their place whenever I want. I want them to have their own world without feeling like their mother is constantly hovering."

A Lesson in Distance: Neetu vs. Rishi Kapoor

Neetu’s philosophy on privacy isn't new; it’s a boundary she’s been advocating for years—even when it meant disagreeing with her late husband, Rishi Kapoor.

The Contrast in Parenting Styles:

• Rishi Kapoor’s Approach: Known for his emotional attachment, Rishi ji would call his daughter, Riddhima, and her husband, Bharat, daily. "Whenever I feel like it, I call them," he would famously insist.

• Neetu’s Advice: She frequently cautioned him against being "on their nerves." She believes that while love is essential, constant check-ins can be intrusive for a newly married couple trying to build their own life.

The Architecture of Independence

The 'Krishna Raj' bungalow is designed to reflect this need for autonomy. While it is a single family home, the floor-wise distribution allows Neetu, Ranbir, and Alia to maintain distinct lives. Even with her granddaughter, Samara, and daughter Riddhima, Neetu maintains a disciplined approach.

"I don't even go into Riddhima's room without informing her," she noted, emphasizing that whether it’s a daughter or a daughter-in-law, the principle remains the same: Privacy is paramount.

By balancing proximity with healthy boundaries, Neetu Kapoor is setting a new standard for the traditional Indian family structure, proving that you can live under one roof and still stay "miles apart" in the best way possible.